All men are not rapists.....your father, brothers, husband and sons are not.

No one wants these unfortunate incidents like this Delhi case to happen,it is gruesome...but...5 statements from people who have said anything other than what the entire nation wants to hear at this moment....are obviously making headlines.....and other 5000000 irresponsible ones from extremists ....tagging all men as animals (except their own fathers ,brothers ,sons and friends) and demanding that there should be legal sections where every accused without a proof should be hanged....are nothing but a slap on the faces of all those men who are standing on the roads with banners and shouting slogans the whole day supporting women and condemning such incidents,a humiliation for all those who can't even think of doing something inhuman like this...but....may be men have got used to it ,they have been generous ,they will be....because not all are rapists.......an incident today in news paper where again a woman has accused three men of rape.....

- Her permanent address is been found to be incorrect

- she is found to have made a similar complain against the same people in some other city a couple of years back

- and police have come to know of a property issue between them...

 still I say what she is claiming should be investigated but a belief ...that no woman can ever lie....is so weird.....
...please ,if there were some animals who have done this,do you really think all those lacs and lacs of men who are condemning it would have just quietly watched it and enjoyed it like a film had they  been watching it happen .?...

..today girls all over the country enjoy night life and are able to be out enjoying and partying because they are not dancing in discs fearing rape all the time as it is claimed to be after such incidents, they feel safe in the company of their male friends who don't think of raping them....it sounds crude ,I know....as it sounds when this is how it is made to seem....I really want to know how many women step out of the house daily with a fear of  RAPE in their mind ?.....and suddenly one fine morning you hear there should be sections amended to goad all men in this country..... it has never proved to be right even in the past..... it is not legally ,ethically and logically right to tag a gender and make sections like 498a and 406 with which lacs of families have been brutally destroyed by women and just because there were people who were dowry seekers,an entire nation full of completely innocent guys and their families have been ruined by innumerable women filing completely concocted and false complains .... this open brutality by women has been termed as "Legal terrorism" by the supreme court as it is still constantly on a rise...so please......Men are born to protect not to rape.....and every daughter,every sister,every mother,every wife and every friend knows it .....

The right attitude is ......every criminal whether a man or a woman should be punished.....and so these men should be punished for what they have done and all men support it.It would in fact be cruel to take drastic constitutional or legal steps in an emotional high and make life hell for lacs and lacs of innocent men hereon,not even good for women because no woman loves to see her father or son harassed,arrested or behind bars just because there have been some male animals who pounce and some female animals who frame.

वो सही था वो सही है

वो सही था वो सही है 

जिसके सर पर तलवार रही है 

सबने मुँह में जो आया कह दिया 

उसकी हर बात अनकही है ,

आज फिर लगा कोई पीछे छूटा शायद 

मुड़ के देखा तो साया भी नहीं है

खुदको फिर तन्हा पाया तो लगा ऐसे

दर्शन तू तब भी वही था

तू अब भी वही है ....

--- DD

TEAS TEASE ...:)

If you can't have 3 teaspoons of sugar in one cup of tea....you are so unlike me....he he,every time when I ask a spot boy or a household help at someone's place...." tea with just milk no water and two and a half teaspoons

 of sugar " ... there comes a pause in the room as if I have abused someone....and then he cross checks ....he leaves as if he is trying to come to terms with it.... he enters after some time as if anticipating to see some magic trick.....and when he places the tray on the table he hands over my cup as if one smuggler is handing over a bag of drugs to another and then he gives a disgusting look .....as if the mental torture that I have caused to the entire humanity is unbearable....and then comes a question sweeter than my tea....do you want some more sugar ?...although it should sound sarcastic but it usually sounds like a client is asking a question to some tantrik baba...one who does black magic....even though I'm not having black tea.It sounds too diabetic to handle for a while and then when the hosts take sips of their teas or whatever you call it .......medicine or extract..... without milk and sugar there is just an atmosphere of sympathy and pity for each other ..... and two three sips of those teas are in absolute silence as if we are in a condolence ceremony and then one of the two makes a Ahem Ahem sound before starting a conversation as if there was definitely something in the tea that was hard to swallow.......ufff teas tease.....he he........:)

रब्बा मुझे भी इस दुनिया के जैसा बना दे ....

रब्बा मुझे भी इस दुनिया के जैसा बना दे ,
कोई कितना खुदको खुद के मरने की सांत्वना दे , 
(सांत्वना - console )


सारी  दुनिया उधर है , अब अकेले डर लगता है ,
मेरे जिंदा होने का माना ये भी एक मुग़ालता  है , 
( मुगालता - confusion ,misconception )


जो पिघलता नहीं , वो जलने की सज़ा  पाता  है ,
बाढ़ को सख्त दरख़्त तोड़कर मज़ा आता है ,

अच्छे दिनों की भी कोई याद होती तो अच्छा होता ,
और उस याद की लम्बी मियाद होती तो अच्छा होता , 
(मियाद - duration)


कुछ हो तो मैं रुकूँ वरना चलूँ फिर रुख्सत लूँ ,
शायद तुझे भी याद रहे तेरी मेरी फुरक़त यूँ ,
(फुरक़त - Separation)


कोई आवाज़ नहीं आती जब पलट कर जाने लगता हूँ ,
अपना नाम चीख कर , गूँज खुद ही को सुनाने लगता हूँ ,


ज़िन्दगी ही कहता था मैं तो , लोग कहते हैं नासूर है ,
जीत का हर फलसफा , खूबसूरत हार का दस्तूर है , 
(फलसफा - Philosophy)


तक़दीर बेरहम थी या मैं बेशर्म था , पता नहीं ,
मेरे क़त्ल में , शरीक़ मैं भी था , उसकी खता नहीं ,


जाने तक सभी ने बहुत लिहाज़ किया मेरे हालात का ,
बोझ भी कुछ कम नहीं था उनपर वफ़ा ओ जज़्बात का ,
(वफ़ा ओ जज़्बात - Loyalty and emotions)


जो मैंने संभाला वो सब छीन लिया रुसवाई ने , 
जो बचा वो भी ले लिया तन्हाई ने ,
गर कभी धूप  पड़े तुमपर तो फिर बुला लेना ,
ऐसा कुछ कहा कल मुझसे मेरी परछाई ने ......
(रुसवाई - bad mouthing or criticize )

                                                                                                      -DD

MY WORST ACTING IN THE ICU

ICU of a hospital in Jaipur.........I was laughing and humming in front of my dad ,just not to let him know that doctors are waiting for his death.Am not able to forget that innocent look ,when he knew something is terribly wrong and would try to get the answer by just looking into my eyes all the time,with numerous tubes in his mouth ,nose ,throat and body....

A year back in the same hospital , where he went on his own feet ,I once told him....."papa I have just seen the ICU in the corridor it is so scary all people are lying like dead bodies,I don't think anybody comes out of it alive ".....I was so stupid....had never thought,it might happen to us so soon.

...... in the same hospital I kept seeing pigeons making nests ,laying eggs ,I watched newborns coming out and flying off and we were still there in the same hospital room....and then dad in all consciousness saw his journey from bed to wheel chairs to stretchers to oxygen to ventilator.....ohhh papa.........and all this happened when my family was already dragged in a painful situation by some animals,and we were very much in the middle of that nightmare,and he just didn't want to leave me and mom alone to fight with them,on one hand they were after our lives ,and my priority was to save my papa and I just couldn't do anything.....

I was casually called one fine morning by the doctors when I had just bought a laptop and internet connection to connect with doctors all over the world to get my papa out of all this ,and was told.....there is very little hope,...... I would get this news in several versions every now and then and then.... I would prepare myself mentally ,enter the same ICU and be loud and would ham to make him believe that I'm so happy to know that he is recovering now.....may be since he was very brave and practical he was looking for an answer so that he could make up his mind for,....I don't know what...... but I like a coward never accepted it...I never wanted to let him get into that mode of giving up.....I just wanted him to die with a relief that everything is fine and everything would be fine ,......one miracle,and it would have saved my faith and my being forever....

Can't explain that moment when someone knows he is leaving his child, his wife forever , you are looking into the pulse meter and cardiogram and know that he is sinking ,and would leave you any moment ,but he is conscious and definitely knows its over and you are still acting and acting ....asking him to sleep and rest and he is not missing a moment of watching you for the last time....and after a moment of vacuum, when the hospital staff pulls out all the tubes ,you are holding your tears  and you just say,please don't pull it so hard ,do it gently , you know , now you are not acting.

...........................MC BC BOSS DK

Maa ki behen ki boss DK pallu ke neeche...WAH WAH ....great songs that are being sung by little kids on the roads of this so claimed culturally rich country... and this ________ (can't find an adjective) trend is the IN THING for the new hippie pretentious YO YO COOL COOL modern multiplex crowd....its different....Indian viewers in a mindless haste to adapt to every change are sooooooo ready and prepared to accept, absorb and follow everything in the name of NEW and DIFFERENT.Rupees people have started earning in dollars ....COMEEEOOON.....have to change sensibilities like mobile phones and laptops....COMMEOOOON.We are modern mature global viewers....we all have imported items at home and our kids just talk in Englissssssss....We SHOULD/MUST like 'bald' (bold) films......yo man....COMMEON if now we have laughter clubs where we can laugh without any reason... your highness it is still a screened cheapness for which I have paid money.......

I have seen a group of 7-8 year old kids copying sex scenes and kissing scenes when playing FILM FILM on the terrace of a building and parents who sit in the theaters and laugh on the cheapest jokes have no problems about their kids becoming such genius learners ....

Competing Radio stations churning filth more than the other to earn money.....radio jockeys commenting and giggling with such low sense of humor on the dirtiest songs abusing women and then they will go overboard on women's day he he...funny.... and we high class people reaching theaters in our Mercedes are served with cow dung in a cake box and we eat it with giggles .....we the same people who think are miles apart from our drivers or watchman sit and enjoy jokes that they share every two minutes .....but pretentious idiots that we are ....our kids are learning the same nonsense that theirs learn without going to school and yet we are sooo cool and upper class.....a culture which we presumed existed in slums now rests in our drawing rooms and our dhobi's child is less sickly informed than our Youtube watching English speaking brat. .......
I feel like laughing on videos of 'Mile sur mera tumhara' with several artists and dancers showing vast musical and lyrical possibilities in this colorful country......now we are governed by a couple of people who have money and a camera to make us believe that all people in this country are proud to watch porn films with their parents and sisters....and Indians who look up to film folks find everything stylish....imitable ,... humor now is all about the sickest thing you can wrap in dialogues and most vulgar and disgusting things you can write because Mumbai is basically full of struggling writers , directors , singers now....people who either want to taste success at any cost or are starving....and once they know that biggies are finding salable garbage in their unexposed lives, the very reason which was discouraging them from competing with them, they will show you in tons what extent of filth can be served.....now if saheb and mem saheb can laugh on the most sexually constipated fantasy one has....I'm a star..... ... ....to hell with conduct...... and constipation of ideas has reached a state where we make a list of the most disgusting things we can write and then incorporate them in a weird unedited footage called film....
We the suave crowd of India are feeling so creatively obliged that there are people who are entertaining us with something so naughty and different .....you just ask them and they can shit all that content for months and months altogether knowing, all nonsense is at least paid for and paid attention to...which is more than enough.......
people who want to be famous can very well find a way through being infamous.

....and then they say this is new cinema......you even if take 10 births can't make old cinema because for that you need a kitchen to cook not a toilet to defecate.You need a brain that can create something absolutely original not a mind to lift swallow and vomit.....

One such film works and all strugglers open a part of their mind which they always felt is so personal and dirty that they never thought it can be so profitable .....

Whenever someone says 'Aajkal yahi chalta hai ' (all this works now a days) I don't understand if he is demeaning himself or saying how disgusting and pretentious double standard perverts we all are.

Some scenes or words too essential for the script can be understood but this deliberate desperation in a seemingly formula xeroxing mind one after the other is so weird..... How effortlessly few people have managed to shower all the frustration and filth on to us and we come out of theaters all drenched learning to grin on such things from each other...wondering if we are with times.

Children playing in theaters when sex scene are showing in the U/A certificate films....or songs with most disgusting words playing on loudspeakers on all occasions in front of our elders are some new colors of India..:)...Lets see how it shapes up.......

Once someone asked Majrooh Sultaanpuri saheb to write a vulgur song and he replied '' Hum kalam sihayi mein dubo kar likhte hain ...pishaab mein nahin " (To write I dip my pen in ink not in urine )

Saytamev Jayate : 4 minute appearance of Mr. Javed Akhtar.

In an hour's episode of Satyamev Jayate on alcoholism the most impactful and affective sentences were spoken by Mr. Javed Akhtar...... 
( I'm writing the exact lines )


1) शराब ऐसी नहीं होती जैसी फिल्मों में दिखती है .....हीरो तो फिल्मों में शराब पीकर बड़े अच्छे डायलोग बोलता है , बड़ा glamorous दिखता  है , ....लेकिन असल ज़िन्दगी में जो लोग शराब पीते हैं ....वे तीन तरह की चीज़ लग सकते हैं ....या तो घिनौने या गधे या दोनों ....इसमें कुछ glamourous नहीं होता....
(Alchohol is not how it is shown in movies.........drunk heros come up with some very good dialogues and look glamorous but in real life those who drink may look like three things.....hateful, donkeys or both, there is nothing glamorous about drinking )
 

2) अगर आप दूध पीना शुरू करें तो ऐसा नहीं होगा की आप 4 साल बाद 11 glass दूध पीते हुए मिलेंगे ....लेकिन शराब में यह tendency होती है कि ये बढ़ती जाती है। 
(If you start having milk you will not find yourself having 11 glasses after 4 years but it is the tendency of alcohol that the quantity keeps increasing )


3) ( He himself used to drink earlier so he said ) लोग मुझे कहते हैं कि मैं समझदार हूँ और intelligent हूँ तो मुझे 27 साल क्यूँ लगे यह समझने में कि मैं ये क्या बेवकूफी का काम कर रहा हूँ ..
(people say , I'm very sensible and intelligent then why did it take me 27 years to understand the foolishness I was doing...)


4) यह बेवकूफी का बदसूरत , घटिया और घिनौना काम है ....देखो बुरा होना तो फिर भी ठीक है पर बेवक़ूफ़ होना तो बहुत ख़राब है  ......

(It is an act which is distasteful , low and hateful .....being bad is still ok but being foolish is weird .........)

Javed saheb was just there for 4 minutes in the episode......

 ......its not what you say .....it is how you say it......:)